Monday, January 28, 2008

Early Signs of Mental Decline

The summer before I became a parent, my father told me my mother was a sick woman. He saw problems before either my sister or I. It was not until he went into CHF the following Thanksgiving that I started seeing subtle signs.

Early warning signs:
  • Will not drive with you in car.
  • Has trouble navigating in new places.
  • Asks you to order in restaurants.
  • Misses making utility payment.
These signs were subtle and did not raise flags at the time. The most noticeable red flag showed up when Dad was in intensive care. Mom could not find the way to and from restroom from lntensive care. Due to stress of the time, this clue went unnoticed.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yea, I agree,

My grandmother is starting to show these signs, but she is now 90, so I guess its time,

Thanks for sharing

Frazzled said...

As they say hindsight is 20/20. I should have made every effort to keep Mom mentally active. When she went into the caregiver roll with Dad she dropped all mentally stimulating activities.

Now with diminished eyesight, hearing, and mental capacities it is hard to get her mentally active again.